When we turn to God to ask for something, we must do it very carefully because we can sin against God. I say this because many when they are desperate for a problem or family situation question God why God has not answered them.
The attitude we should have when we go to ask God is humbly and patiently, so as not to lose control and sin against God. That is why we must have self-control.
When you ask God, He will arrive at the right time, for God will not put a burden that you cannot born, but He allows all this to make you stronger and more resistant to the trials that come into your life.