It is evident that the love of God encompasses everything that is inside and outside, that is why that love can be reflected in a supernatural, strong, compassionate, respectable and understanding way. This is God’s love for people.
He created man and woman to create families and have love for each other, man treating woman as a fragile vessel, and woman treating her husband as head of the home, respecting him in everything, loving him and honoring him.
That is why also before we love a person, one must love himself first and then love his neighbor. That love one must feel it first, since one is already under the command of the Lord, walking in His ways in obedience to Him.
We know well that every man who submits to God can bear good things, has good behavior, and for this reason his wife will always be blessed and respected by her husband. He will love her until death has separated them.
So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
Ephesians 5:28 (KJV)
The love of a man for his wife should not be just any love, it should be a deep and strong love, that is why in the previous verse says that “husbands should love their wives as their own bodies.”
Why does it says “as their own bodies”? Well, nobody in their right mind wants to harm his body, on the contrary, one wants the best for himself and takes care of himself, in the same way, husbands must love their wives and take care of them as if they were themselves.
Men, love your women, respect them, love them, because this was the companion that God gave you.