Sometimes we tend to have the wrong idea of what living in the Spirit really is. We think that living in the Spirit is flying through the air, dividing the waters, bringing fire down from heaven, and performing a group of miracles. And being spiritual is not that, it is something much deeper, such as giving up our own desires to be crucified.
The apostle Paul wrote:
24 And they that are Christ’s have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts.
25 If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit.
26 Let us not be desirous of vain glory, provoking one another, envying one another.